Love: Make sure you KNOW it's right

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By Miss G

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Love is such a wonderful thing. What is love? Love can be mutual, love can be hated. How can you hate love? Love can drive you crazy. In a good way and bad. Love can be strong, love can be weak. Love can even be non-existent. Love can have passion. Love is great. Love is one of those things you want. Love is one of those things you crave. Love is one of those things you NEED. Love keeps you happy. Love keeps you healthy. Love makes you think. Love makes you do crazy things. Love makes you do nice things. Love makes you crave more. You crave it so much, you can't get enough of it. Love is so big. Love is so complex. Love is bigger than just a word, it has great depth and meaning. You can feel it and it's an amazing feeling. You want to be loved, you want to love. You need it. You want it. It JUST happens. You can make it happen with the things you do and the things you say. Love is there. Love is in the air and love can be forever yours. Love can be quick, love can be slow. Love can be long, or love can be short. Love is a heartbreaker. Love is a lovemaker. Love is accepting. Love is caring. Love appreciates you. Love is feeling good. Love is expressive. Love is attentive. Love looks you in the eye. Love touches. Love listens. Love makes time. Love love's you back and is there for you through thick and thin. Love is yours forever with much effort and passion, it can last forever.

You know when you love someone so much, you get that good feeling inside. I have that feeling. That no matter what happens he'll be there. We can fight and bicker, but the love is always there. We say forever and we mean forever. It's our word for eachother that always rings true. No matter what, we have so much in common, so many layers. And we have so many differences that make our love stronger. Although we disagree, we overcome the battle and yet can still look into eachother's eyes with so much love, and can lay in eachother's arms like it was our last day on earth. It may make people sick to their stomach's, how much we love eachother. And no matter how much we disagree, it doesn't change a thing. We have alot of growing up to do, and I love the fact that we are able to grow together, and rather than calling it quits, we can just work through it. It makes it so much stronger. It's stronger than ever. Even if he's in the next room playing a video game, and I'm on my laptop writing on hubpages, I know everything is great. We don't have to talk to eachother to know that. We just know. It's one of those things that can go unsaid. You just feel love.

 

You have to know how to make your partner happy, you have to know how to keep it lively. Kick it up a notch. Make him or her come running. Make them want you. Keep it exciting. You might be in a relationship and want to give up. But if it's a love that you can feel is the one. The right one. Then make it work. Just make it work. You have to know whether or not the other person is in it as much as you are. Never invest more in a relationship than you can handle. If you know they love you like crazy and you feel the same, there is a reason to invest so much time and effort. But if it's questionable: Find out, answer that question and take it from there. You know what's right, what you feel in your heart. But don't let your heart be all that makes the decision for you...

Use some common sense. Make sure you know what your getting yourself into first. Don't just jump right in expecting things to be that fairy tale dream. There is no such thing, but it's what we make of it. We have the power within ourselves to get the love we want and deserve. Know your limits and boundaries, know what's right, what's wrong, and what you need to make you happy. If your not happy, it is up to YOU to do something about it. You don't have to stay in something that just doesn't work. Why would you. Don't belittle yourself to settle for unhappiness. Be nice to yourself and do what makes you happy. You deserve happiness. You deserve to be loved and appreciated. So, make sure your getting it, and makes sure it is with someone you love who loves you back, someone who appreciates you for who you are and everything you do. Make sure it's "right" for you.

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clamag profile image

clamag 3 years ago

"Love is a smoke raised with the fume of sighs" (Romeo and Juliet, W. Shakespeare)

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Miss G Hub Author 3 years ago

Thanks for the quote Clamag, I appreciate you stopping by and taking the time to read my hub!

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clamag 3 years ago

I'm a love fan

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Miss G Hub Author 3 years ago

Glad your a fan!! Yay. Welcome to hubpages!

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Benson Yeung Level 1 Commenter 3 years ago

I suppose I'm also a love fan, being in my late forties and still wriiting about this theme. thanks for sharing.

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Miss G Hub Author 3 years ago

You can never write too much about love, you can go on forever im sure. lol..Love is exciting, I think that's why it's a hot topic, you can never get enough of it.

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Melissa G 3 years ago

Funny, I'm on my laptop, writing on hubpages, and my boyfriend is in the next room playing video games! I like how you described various aspects of love in this hub. In my life, it seems I needed to fully understand what love was NOT before I could recognize and appreciate it when it finally arrived.

I'm glad to hear you've found such a rewarding relationship. It's amazing how easy it is to get along and work through things when you're in love! It really is the most wonderful feeling in the world.

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Miss G Hub Author 3 years ago

Mine is in the other room yet again too playing video games LOL go figure. Most likely if I'm on HP it's because he's playin.

There's alot of women out there who don't know what love is-not because they can't love, but because they're not getting it the right way.

I am happy to hear you've found it as well, understand the true meaning and can appreciate it, as I do! =)

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Tiffb01 3 years ago

I have been in a relationship for 7 years and we have been through our ups and down and I make love him no less, In fact I love the fact that I know what to do in case we one day move on into another relationship.

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Miss G Hub Author 3 years ago

Thanks Tiffb for stopping by and reading my hubs! I too have been in a long relationship, about 6 yrs. I believe he's the love of my life. But as you say, I'm pretty sure if we were to break up, I'd be prepared and know what to do in the next one from the experience in this one. Through the ups and downs, we can learn from eachother and grow, and if it doesn't work out, I'll be more wise in the next one! I hope LOL

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shezz3085 3 years ago

Love is everything, the most powerful thing in this planet earth. No one can thwart love, it always exist no matter how force you give but it naturally exist. Love is unconditional...hehehhee nice hub!

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Miss G Hub Author 3 years ago

Yep! Your so right....it should always be unconditional..& it's a natural part of us...we can't help but L.o.v.e :) Thanks for the comment Shezz!

Josh 3 years ago

"Love is a many splendured thing. All you need is love." Moulin Rouge. God IS Love. That is my favorite.

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Miss G Hub Author 3 years ago

I love those sayings also! Thanks for stoppin by Josh!

charmane 8 months ago

love is not being with someone it was about what u are willing to give up

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Stacey Whitehead 4 months ago

What an amazing article love it. It made me remember alot of things

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