How to not let what others say bother you #3
67Don't let what others say bother you:Blog#3
If you do, your letting them get the very best of you. Sometimes you can ignore it, but it's not always easy. Life is too short, as the saying goes. Don't sweat the small stuff, as the other saying goes. Those are two great sayings to go by. Be strong. When we give in to those people who are negative, we are giving the power to them. As Dr. Phil says, "Take your power back!" The best thing you can do for yourself in these situations is to be optimistic. It's mind over matter, so don't mind what doesn't matter. People who are out to put you down, simply have nothing better to do with themselves. If you are a sensitive person, it can really effect you. It can wear you down and stress you out. Don't let it! Read positive affirmations and be positive. Don't dwell on it and "brush it off your shoulders" as rapper Jay-Z would put it. Positive self talk can do wonders for how you react to other people. Be confident in yourself to not let negative comments bother you, and the more positive you are the less likely you will let negative comments bother you and the less likely people will be out to throw darts at you. Don't let them rob you of your happiness. Be optimistic!
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i needed this this morning! I'm trying out a new hairstyle. big deal, right? well, i'm in high school ---> where some of the meanest critics can be found. i won't let the negative stuff bother me!
It is very hard to stay positive when someone is attacking you emotionaly . Sometimes you feel like kicking their butt .
It's hard being a sensitive person, especially when people can be so damn cruel. You've just got to keep your head up high.
People ask me how old I am just because my nose is pierced. As if their is a law for it like being 21 to drink.
Words can hurt but less if we can stop brooding on them.
I am having trouble staying positive....Im being publicly ridiculed (via FB)....help!
How to stay positive if it's your own mother that destroys everything you've got positive in your life? It's really, really hard. Really hard. I can't even say I am a strong person. I look like I am but it's really hard to feel that inside. It's very hard to stay on the right track and move on with your life.. but it's possible.
STUPID!!! IT WILL NOT STRESS YOU OUT.. THERE IS NO SUCH THINGS AS STRESS.... DUN WRITE NONSENSE HERE!!
THERE ARE MANY THINGS YOU COULD DO!! JUST LET GO. LIFE IS TOO SHORT.. EVEN IF YOU HAVE NO FRIENDS .. SO WHAT?? WE DUN DEPEND ON THEM TO LIVE
This article was inspiring. @SV you're absolutely right.
I am hated at school I have 4 SUPER close friends and some other friends outside my group..People hate me at school because they dont like 2 of my friends...Now its depressing and the popular people make you feel like CRAP!...I am so sick of it all I want is to stop feeling sad...People can give you good advice but its like a pill...you use until its wears off then your right back to where you started...Take like this...Use the advice keep it in your system and dont cough it up..
MyMLMMagic 3 years ago
I agree! Having a positive outlook is key and you sure got it! Keep it up ! Woo HOOO!